The other day I came across a video of a party at the Playboy mansion. The party was to honor The Nicole Brown Foundation which is a foundation to help end domestic violence. I went to the website and have found that they do a lot of really good things. They are commited to raising awareness and education about domestic violence. They also raise money for womens shelters. I did found it odd that a party to honor The Nicole Brown Foundation would take place in conjuction with Playboy, an business known for its exploitation of women.
So... the reason for tonights blog is to discuss what exactly is exploitation? I know that the Playboy bunnies and Playboy playmates have chosen these careers, it isn't slavery, but what are the circumstances behind such a career choice? It is very common for women who were sexually abused early in life to view their own bodies as a mans toy. I would think it wrong for a man to take advantage of that skewed perception and vulnerability. Men play a very significant role in how women's body image and self esteem. Genuine affection from a man can do a lot to show a woman her own worth and value.
The flip side of this is that women can and often do use their sexuality as a means to damage or use men. In our society women are often viewed as helpless and fragile creatures who are at the mercy of the men in their lives. Women can be just as strong and manipulative, and men are every bit as likely to be the victim. A lot of women will use their sexual charm as a way to get men to buy them things, take them places or get their own way in an argument. We often overlook male victims which is sad because it makes it harder for men to find support when they have been victimized.
None of this answered the question about exploitation but I would love to hear your thoughts on the matter.
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